It's interesting being an American in Canada on Remembrance Day. It's such an entirely different experience than being in the U.S. First off, the States doesn't have Remembrance Day (or Armistice Day, as those of you across the pond call it). We have Veterans Day, which is observed on the same day, but unless you actually
are a veteran or the family of one, this day is largely ignored. We also have Memorial Day in May, which was originally Decoration Day commemorating the veterans of the Confederacy and now is mainly the last day of a three-day holiday. When I was in elementary school, we recognized many holidays; Columbus Day, Washington's and Lincoln's birthdays and of course, all the "big" holidays, but I can't remember any kind of acknowledgement of either Veterans or Memorial Day. Many people blame that kind of oversight to the disenchantment of the U.S with the Vietnam War, but the bitterness over that conflict really didn't start until the late 60's. I was in high school when the most serious of the protests occurred. But even before Vietnam, Veterans Day and Memorial Day were just not that important.
Compare that with Canada. Remembrance Day is a big deal. Every school I have taught at has a special assembly with students speaking and honouring those who served and those who gave their lives. We make wreaths to honour the dead. We stand silently for two minutes and listen reverently to the notes of "The Last Post". On Friday, over 600 middle school students sat without a sound for nearly an hour, understanding the solemnity of the occasion. Trust me when I tell you: that is remarkable.
Today I attended the ceremony at the cenotaph at City Hall. The crowd was a mix of young and old and several hundred strong, all wearing red poppies on their coat lapels. I got tears in my eyes as the parade of present Armed Forces personnel marched down Main Street along with veterans. I thought of my father, who served in World War II and my stepson, currently serving in the Canadian Navy. I am proud of them both and of the others who defend Canada and the U.S.
This day is not about honouring war. It is about honouring those who fought for their countries. Some conflicts are not easy to support, but the young men and women who are fighting them are not the ones making the decisions. They are simply doing the best they can. They are (and were) very young. They make mistakes and some may not have met the high expectations we have of our armed forces. But, I think the majority of them have. And, if you haven't already, why not take two minutes to remember their sacrifices.
Labels: Past Imperfect, The Great White North